versicolor
coaching
Sex & Relationship Coaching
Are you ready to deepen your connections and enhance your pleasure? With Versicolor Coaching, you will experience somatic practices that combine talk-based coaching with hands-on experiential techniques designed to help clients access more resiliency in their relationships, expand their emotional landscape, and achieve more confidence in their lives. I help clients live in their bodies and access more pleasure.
I can help you overcome toxic shame, low libido, erectile disfunction, performance anxiety, attachment trauma, the art of seduction, flirting, postpartum intimacy issues, body shame, ethical non-monogamy, and other relationship issues.
Jessica is a Somatica® Institute trained sex and relation coach and somatic sexologist based in Colorado Springs, CO. I see clients in person or online, and I am committed to your pleasure.
Do you experience shame around sex and intimacy?
Do you struggle to connect with intimate partners?
With one-on-one coaching sessions, we can work together to help you overcome barriers to deeper intimacy.
Fill out this questionnaire to determine if this is right for you.
I will cater each session to your needs. As a Somatica® trained coach, I am committed to your goals.
Sex
I help people access a more fuller expression of their sexual self, so that they can receive more pleasure in their relationships. Experience a sex positive environment where it is safe to explore your desires and kinks. I specialize in BDSM and D/s dynamics, and we can explore these in a safe container.
Shame
Shame can be a roadblock to pleasure, and I can help you clear the pathway to living more authentically. Whether you are overcoming a religious background, have mysterious kinks, or are fearing the reactions of loved ones, I can help you overcome shame, and be able to communicate from a place of love rather than fear.
Secure Attachment
If you are avoidant or anxiously attached, I can help you gain a more secure attachment with yourself, so that you can show up in your relationships ready for deeper connection. We can work together to help you gain a more full understanding of your boundaries, so that you can communicate them lovingly.
Non-Monogamy
Whether you are thinking of transitioning to non-monogamy or working through the kinks, I can help couples or polycules navigate this difficult paradigm shift. We can work through the tough feelings that come up, whether it is jealousy or attachment traumas. I am experienced in polyamory, and I am passionate about helping others.
Jessica Langley
Jessica Langley (she/they) is Somatica® Institute trained sex and relationship coach and somatic sexologist based in Colorado Springs, CO. She is dedicated to liberating humans from toxic shame. She believes that embodied pleasure is a birthright, and she can help you reclaim your sacred eroticism. Jessica is queer and polyamorous, and through her personal journey she has learned to overcome anxious attachment style patterns and embrace ecstatic self love. She has developed a system of sensual and playful practices to help you reclaim your right to pleasurable wholeness and deeper connection. Jessica has a background in fine art, and sensuality has become her primary media of expression. Jessica is certfied as an apprentice in sexology by the American Board of Sexology.
TESTIMONIALS
Jess is caring and deeply smart. She listens with great empathy and without any judgment. When recently asking her for guidance about me and my husband’s recent open relationship, she met us where we were with great sensitivity, without imposing any pre-established expectations about how an open relationship should look. – M.P., New York, NY
In my 40s and recently out of a long-term relationship, I felt stuck. Like many women of my generation, I grappled with a perceived lack of agency in communicating boundaries, initiating conversations about consent, and expressing my relational and sexual desires. With deep empathy and care, Jessica met me where I was, helping unravel knots of shame and providing tangible pathways to feel deserving of joy and pleasure. What I particularly value about Jessica's approach is that we practiced specific tools through roleplay and visualization, instilling confidence to integrate these practices into my life. - A.T., New York, NY
As a trans woman, sex and intimacy often don’t feel safe ; from personal trauma and gendered social norms to fluid sexuality. Working with Jessica has felt very safe and welcoming, she was already knowledgeable about these topics and I never felt like I had to explain myself. She’s always tuned into the issues at hand and offered exercises to help after. - R.T., Berlin, Germany
Jess has an extraordinarily big heart and intelligence to match. When my partner and I were first opening our long-term monogamous relationship, we were going through a very difficult period of transition, and Jess was there to help ground us and put things in perspective. She has a wealth of experience to draw on, and she’s a great listener. - C.B., Brooklyn, NY
Jessica provides more than just information; she provides comfort. She creates a safe space in every session that’s tailored to your needs so you get the best experience possible. I’m excited to work with her again!. - D.D., Colorado Springs, CO
Jessica’s warm non-judge mental presence put you instantly at ease. As a gifted intimacy coach, she makes it easy and even pleasant to talk about even some of the most difficult topics. She has helped me to overcome some of my most stubborn obstacles to love so I can access more pleasure in my body and intimacy with my partner. I highly recommend booking a session with her if you would like to access more pleasure and intimacy this year. - S.H, Colorado Springs, CO
My life is in such a better position now because of her specifically and how she goes about coaching. I think the greatest thing is, is that each time I had a new way of managing the concern I was dealing with and was able to practice with her, and then took that knowledge to the real world. - C.S., Denver, CO
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Yoga Center of Denver in Denver, CO
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Versicolor Coaching
Contact me for help with sex & relationships. Through sex & relationship coaching, we can
create a relationship lab designed to help you develop deeper intimacy.
My mission is to create a safe container for us to build trust, and facilitate your growth.
I am committed to serving my LGBTQ+ community and their allies.
I am located in Colorado Springs, CO, and I see clients in person or online.
What is Somatica®?
Code of Ethics
We, as Somatica coaches, approach our sessions with compassion, communication, and boundaries. Click here to read the Somatica Code of Ethics
Acceptance
We accept people wherever they are at in their relationships and sexual journey. We do not discriminate based on age, race, gender, sexuality, ability, religion, military status, or class. We believe that everyone is welcome entitled to live a fulfilling intimate life free of shame.
Somatica® Method
Rooted in emotional and erotic connection, the Somatica Method combines talk-based coaching with experiential practices to help coaches and clients expand their skills and beliefs around intimacy. This process is the key to changing your existing habits, uncovering your true self, and unlocking a more fulfilling sex life and deeper relationships. Click here to read more